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I hope you'll see that the principles
that underlie this process are exactly
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the same as all the other pre circles
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for the same reason that the other pre
circles are all the same.
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What criteria would I use to
differentiate?
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If I'm truly not seeing one or another
party in the circle
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as being more or less human
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if I'm not using that kind of moral
judgment to separate them
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then I have no reason to do
one thing with one of them
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and something else with another.
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Every pre circle is based on the same
questions
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like every participant in the circle receives
the same questions in a circle.
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So me and Hanna are colleagues, Hannah's
just about to go into a circle or she's
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somewhere in the middle of the process
of pre circles and now
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I'm going to offer her, her pre circle.
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Only if I believe in my head that
there's such a thing as a facilitator
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would I do anything different with
Hannah.
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If I'm really focused on Dom sitting
down with Hannah
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then the criteria I'm going to use for
deciding what to do
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are: "Is this process effective ?"
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That's the only question.
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But I am going to adapt the wording a
little bit
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to make it relevant to Hannah's
situation right now.
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So I'm going to read these questions out in
English in their didactic form and
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Nadine is going to read them out in
German in their didactic form and
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I'd like you to listen and think: "Oh can
I see how that is actually the same
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question in different words as the one
that we use with the other participants
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in the pre circle?"
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and the question is going to be:
"Can I see that the basis of this question
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is the same?" Just the external form
has shifted a little bit.
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The same as the other pre circles.
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In the facilitator's pre circle
I'm going to ask these questions.
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Again these are the long full versions
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which I recommend that you use
for your first 15 or 20 experiences
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your first 15 or 20
real live restorative processes
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not in practice groups.
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Until you get a real sense of why they
are the way they are and then you can
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speak them in your own colloquial way.
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I'm going to ask: "Is there a fixed
idea you're having about yourself
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about the process or about the other
participants that diminishes your
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ability to focus on the humanity of
everybody involved?"
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Can you repeat that? Is there a fixed idea
that you are having about yourself
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about the process
or about the other participants
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that in anyway is diminishing
your ability
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to see the humanity of everybody
involved?
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Okay that's what I'm going to ask Hanna.
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Then if something comes up
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I'm going to connect to the meaning that
it has for her
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in the most effective way that I know
how
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exactly the same as in all the other pre circles
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connecting to the needs
that I'm guessing are alive in her.
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Then I'm going to move on to the third
stage
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sharing information and checking her
willingness to go ahead.
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And I'm going to say: "As you look at the
steps you're going to take
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is there anything that comes up for you
for which you'd like support?"
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Then I'm going to say: "Do you know what
you want to do to get this support?"
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And then I'm gonna ask her: "Do you want
to go ahead?"
00:00:04,580 --> 00:00:10,190
I hope you'll see that the principles
that underlie this process are exactly
2
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the same as all the other pre circles
3
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for the same reason that the other pre
circles are all the same.
4
00:00:34,550 --> 00:00:40,580
What criteria would I use to
differentiate?
5
00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:48,140
If I'm truly not seeing one or another
party in the circle
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as being more or less human
7
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if I'm not using that kind of moral
judgment to separate them
8
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then I have no reason to do
one thing with one of them
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and something else with another.
10
00:01:21,700 --> 00:01:26,500
Every pre circle is based on the same
questions
11
00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:34,500
like every participant in the circle receives
the same questions in a circle.
12
00:01:36,740 --> 00:01:41,450
So me and Hanna are colleagues, Hannah's
just about to go into a circle or she's
13
00:01:41,450 --> 00:01:46,010
somewhere in the middle of the process
of pre circles and now
14
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I'm going to offer her, her pre circle.
15
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Only if I believe in my head that
there's such a thing as a facilitator
16
00:02:01,310 --> 00:02:05,290
would I do anything different with
Hannah.
17
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If I'm really focused on Dom sitting
down with Hannah
18
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then the criteria I'm going to use for
deciding what to do
19
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are: "Is this process effective ?"
20
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That's the only question.
21
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But I am going to adapt the wording a
little bit
22
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to make it relevant to Hannah's
situation right now.
23
00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:56,730
So I'm going to read these questions out in
English in their didactic form and
24
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Nadine is going to read them out in
German in their didactic form and
25
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I'd like you to listen and think: "Oh can
I see how that is actually the same
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question in different words as the one
that we use with the other participants
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in the pre circle?"
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and the question is going to be:
"Can I see that the basis of this question
29
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is the same?" Just the external form
has shifted a little bit.
30
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The same as the other pre circles.
31
00:03:51,180 --> 00:03:56,720
In the facilitator's pre circle
I'm going to ask these questions.
32
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Again these are the long full versions
33
00:04:05,650 --> 00:04:12,150
which I recommend that you use
for your first 15 or 20 experiences
34
00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:19,390
your first 15 or 20
real live restorative processes
35
00:04:19,390 --> 00:04:23,160
not in practice groups.
36
00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:32,270
Until you get a real sense of why they
are the way they are and then you can
37
00:04:32,270 --> 00:04:36,670
speak them in your own colloquial way.
38
00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:48,800
I'm going to ask: "Is there a fixed
idea you're having about yourself
39
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about the process or about the other
participants that diminishes your
40
00:04:53,990 --> 00:04:59,020
ability to focus on the humanity of
everybody involved?"
41
00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:20,880
Can you repeat that? Is there a fixed idea
that you are having about yourself
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about the process
or about the other participants
43
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that in anyway is diminishing
your ability
44
00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:41,850
to see the humanity of everybody
involved?
45
00:05:54,020 --> 00:05:58,129
Okay that's what I'm going to ask Hanna.
46
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Then if something comes up
47
00:06:04,919 --> 00:06:09,409
I'm going to connect to the meaning that
it has for her
48
00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:18,020
in the most effective way that I know
how
49
00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:23,980
exactly the same as in all the other pre circles
50
00:06:23,980 --> 00:06:28,360
connecting to the needs
that I'm guessing are alive in her.
51
00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:36,980
Then I'm going to move on to the third
stage
52
00:06:38,770 --> 00:06:43,710
sharing information and checking her
willingness to go ahead.
53
00:06:48,629 --> 00:06:54,020
And I'm going to say: "As you look at the
steps you're going to take
54
00:06:56,409 --> 00:07:02,099
is there anything that comes up for you
for which you'd like support?"
55
00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:16,680
Then I'm going to say: "Do you know what
you want to do to get this support?"
56
00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:26,450
And then I'm gonna ask her: "Do you want
to go ahead?"
