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Avant-Cercle du facilitateur
Partie pédagogique
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Facilitateur de Cercles Restauratifs
Pratique avec Dominique Barter
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The next thing that I want to do is
to check my connection with colleagues.
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I want to check my support structure
that involves other people.
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Now most of the time I would encourage facilitators
to work collectively in teams
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partly for logistical reasons
partly because I would like facilitators
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to reflect the community that the restorative system
in which they work is serving
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so that there is a little bit of choice
for that community as to who facilitate circles
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and so that the people who facilitate
their circles in some way
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share the life experience that they have.
But also because facilitators support each other.
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So that's not always possible
as it's not always possible to have people
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physically in the same space with you
in the same restorative system close at hand
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but happily using technology using
phones and internet and other forms
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it's mostly possible for us to make contact
with other facilitators these days
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without too much trouble.
And that's important for me, because
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I noticed that I am inevitably going to
form particular ideas about myself
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about the other participants
and about the particular issue
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that we're going to work on
in a specific restorative process.
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So I want the support of my colleagues
to enable me to reconnect to fluidity
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to reconnect to a place of possibility
to reconnect to not knowing.
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So I sometimes call this moment the
facilitators pre circle.
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It is an encounter of support between
one facilitator and another.
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It can happen at any time before the circle.
So it can happen before the first pre circle
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or between the first and the second
or between the second and the third,
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it can happen more than once
if necessary.
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And it is the single most frequently
forgotten step in the work
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that the facilitator does.
Because it's a lovely idea for which I don't have time.
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So much so, that in most of
the restorative systems that I've been part of
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setting up in Brazil,
we've organized it such that it is no longer
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the responsibility of the facilitator
to request their pre circle
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it's the responsibility of their colleagues
to offer that pre circle and offer
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in inverted commas because sometimes
that offering is really quite direct.
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It's not obligatory, but it's something
that people learn to do with
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with some clarity of intention let's say
and I've seen facilitators actually
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running after colleagues as the colleagues
walk down the corridor towards a particular
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pre circle to check that this person
is really ok and actually
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getting in their way
before they have a sense yes I am going
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to this pre circle with a sense of
openness and possibility.
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Because it's probably not, "if" you develop ideas
about yourself, others, and the situation.
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It's more likely to be "when" you develop
ideas about yourself, the others, and the situation.
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Just as I say that I've never been in a restorative circle without having been triggered, myself
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it's very unlikely
that I will be doing pre circles
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without in some way developing
ideas about who really is to blame
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who's really suffered
what people should have done
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and what it is that I will be able
to offer these people whether they like it or not.
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So I really value having the support
of another facilitator in a facilitator pre circle.
00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,840
Avant-Cercle du facilitateur
Partie pédagogique
2
00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:05,360
Facilitateur de Cercles Restauratifs
Pratique avec Dominique Barter
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00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:10,160
The next thing that I want to do is
to check my connection with colleagues.
4
00:00:10,180 --> 00:00:15,860
I want to check my support structure
that involves other people.
5
00:00:15,860 --> 00:00:22,580
Now most of the time I would encourage facilitators
to work collectively in teams
6
00:00:22,580 --> 00:00:28,180
partly for logistical reasons
partly because I would like facilitators
7
00:00:28,180 --> 00:00:35,540
to reflect the community that the restorative system
in which they work is serving
8
00:00:35,540 --> 00:00:42,520
so that there is a little bit of choice
for that community as to who facilitate circles
9
00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:47,320
and so that the people who facilitate
their circles in some way
10
00:00:47,340 --> 00:00:55,920
share the life experience that they have.
But also because facilitators support each other.
11
00:00:55,940 --> 00:01:00,670
So that's not always possible
as it's not always possible to have people
12
00:01:00,670 --> 00:01:05,660
physically in the same space with you
in the same restorative system close at hand
13
00:01:05,660 --> 00:01:11,200
but happily using technology using
phones and internet and other forms
14
00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,650
it's mostly possible for us to make contact
with other facilitators these days
15
00:01:14,650 --> 00:01:19,570
without too much trouble.
And that's important for me, because
16
00:01:19,570 --> 00:01:27,369
I noticed that I am inevitably going to
form particular ideas about myself
17
00:01:27,369 --> 00:01:31,479
about the other participants
and about the particular issue
18
00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:36,520
that we're going to work on
in a specific restorative process.
19
00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:42,640
So I want the support of my colleagues
to enable me to reconnect to fluidity
20
00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:50,060
to reconnect to a place of possibility
to reconnect to not knowing.
21
00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:56,610
So I sometimes call this moment the
facilitators pre circle.
22
00:01:58,759 --> 00:02:04,979
It is an encounter of support between
one facilitator and another.
23
00:02:04,979 --> 00:02:10,019
It can happen at any time before the circle.
So it can happen before the first pre circle
24
00:02:10,019 --> 00:02:15,360
or between the first and the second
or between the second and the third,
25
00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:20,040
it can happen more than once
if necessary.
26
00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:26,080
And it is the single most frequently
forgotten step in the work
27
00:02:26,099 --> 00:02:33,950
that the facilitator does.
Because it's a lovely idea for which I don't have time.
28
00:02:34,940 --> 00:02:39,390
So much so, that in most of
the restorative systems that I've been part of
29
00:02:39,390 --> 00:02:43,860
setting up in Brazil,
we've organized it such that it is no longer
30
00:02:43,860 --> 00:02:50,400
the responsibility of the facilitator
to request their pre circle
31
00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:57,840
it's the responsibility of their colleagues
to offer that pre circle and offer
32
00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:05,220
in inverted commas because sometimes
that offering is really quite direct.
33
00:03:05,220 --> 00:03:13,840
It's not obligatory, but it's something
that people learn to do with
34
00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:19,960
with some clarity of intention let's say
and I've seen facilitators actually
35
00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:25,120
running after colleagues as the colleagues
walk down the corridor towards a particular
36
00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:30,640
pre circle to check that this person
is really ok and actually
37
00:03:30,640 --> 00:03:35,519
getting in their way
before they have a sense yes I am going
38
00:03:35,519 --> 00:03:39,599
to this pre circle with a sense of
openness and possibility.
39
00:03:39,599 --> 00:03:46,919
Because it's probably not, "if" you develop ideas
about yourself, others, and the situation.
40
00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:53,680
It's more likely to be "when" you develop
ideas about yourself, the others, and the situation.
41
00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:59,560
Just as I say that I've never been in a restorative circle without having been triggered, myself
42
00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:02,600
it's very unlikely
that I will be doing pre circles
43
00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:09,060
without in some way developing
ideas about who really is to blame
44
00:04:09,060 --> 00:04:12,680
who's really suffered
what people should have done
45
00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:20,360
and what it is that I will be able
to offer these people whether they like it or not.
46
00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:26,640
So I really value having the support
of another facilitator in a facilitator pre circle.
